Monday, July 23, 2012

Renn's Story: A Call for Togetherness

For many adults, entertainment provides an escape.  It doesn't matter if its watching a movie, cheering on a sports team or reading a book, entertainment helps adults escape their reality and live in another world for awhile.

For kids, most of the time reality doesn't need to be escaped.  Instead, entertainment provides time for togetherness and community.  Whether its going to the circus with your family, watching a movie with your best buddies or curling up with a bedtime story its about being with the ones you are with. 

Today I would like to share a story about a very special 5 year old and his mother.  They need our togetherness, our community as they enter the hospital for some tests.  Its a scary time.  But, Renn and Bethany, today I hope you can feel our togetherness.  Our love.  Our support and encouragement.  Imagine that you are in a big comfy chair with us reading your favorite bedtime story.  Its about togetherness...and escape if needed. 

We love you and hope to hear good news soon.  My prayers are with you. 

Here is Renn's story, as told by his mother, Bethany Telles.

You see this little man? ---------->

Well, he's my oldest son. His name is Renn, and he's 5 years old. In less than a month, he'll be going to Kindergarten. He loves Star Wars and knows everything about all six movies... Seriously. He's very smart (okay, yes, I'm a teensy bit biased!), and has said some of the most hilarious things I have ever heard in my life.

Back in February of this year, Renn began having seizures. I mean, out of NOWHERE. They are not your stereotypical lying on the floor, twitching, convulsing, and drooling type seizures (those are called Grand Mal seizures). He has what is known as Petite Mal seizures, which are far less scary to watch (unless you're the person's parents!). He'll begin by shuffling his feet, pointing at or asking about a million different random things, and then his body will "spasm" and he'll flail his right arm out, and might run in a circle while clapping or hopping.

We ran him through the gambit of tests. He had a CT Scan, an EEG, and a MRI... I must admit, with each test, my heart sank. It was hard to watch. But him? With each test, he got to be a cooler and more intelligent Jedi. The resilience of this child... I can't even explain. Anyway, the CT scan came back clear. MRI? Perfect. But the EEG? No such luck. The doctor said it was just "ugly". Believe me, I didn't spend years in medical school learning how to read EEGs, and to me, that thing made me cry.
So in March, we got hit in the gut with a load of the heaviest bricks. Our little boy was diagnosed with Complex Partial Epilepsy.


That word just didn't make sense. He was perfectly FINE all this time! Would he be able to live a normal life? Would he be able to drive one day? What did that word mean, exactly? It truly is unbelievable how little we knew about the disease, and what kind of stigma it holds for those who don't know. I've long dealt with people not understanding my disease (I'm a Type 1 Diabetic- have been since I was 10), but now? Was I going to have to go into each teacher at every new school year and whisper quietly all the restrictions he was to have? NO. I just wasn't having it.

Luckily, his Neurologist- thankfully a close family friend of ours- calmed me the heck down. He said Renn would be just fine, and there were no restrictions. He'd be on medication, and once it kicked in and he stopped having seizures, we'd recheck in a year and see if we could start weaning him off the meds. That meant there's a chance he'd outgrow this!

Hope! There was hope!

But, three months, three heavy medications, seven different dosage changes, and many seizures later, that one year goal seems further and further out of reach.

Tomorrow (July 23, 2012) I will be taking Renn to our wonderful Children's Hospital, where we will admit him, and he will be monitored for at least 72hrs on what's called a VEEG (Video EEG). The goal is to find out what, exactly, is going on in that beautiful, innocent brain of his. I am praying for answers. I don't think there is anything worse, short of losing your child, than not knowing what is going on with your baby.

Why am I sharing this? Well, one- I'm a writer. I have to write, and as I've explained before, it's extremely therapeutic for me. But, two- I am sharing this because I know I have a family, here. A family that cares about what is going on. But more than that, we write for kids everyday, so odds are, we kinda like them. :) I'm hoping that maybe, just maybe, I can lean on you in this hard time.

So I am making a request... If you wouldn't mind it this week while Renn is in the hospital, could you share this picture and story with everyone you know? I will be making it my profile picture on FB, but you certainly do NOT have to go that far. But maybe ask your friends, families, or followers to pray and/or share? I want to be able to show Renn, as he sits and sits and sits during the VEEG, that there are people in the world praying for and thinking of him... That he CAN get through this, the only way Jedis can... By using the Force. :)

Please share this story and/or Renn's picture today on your social media outlets.  And please feel free to leave comments for Renn and Bethany here.


  1. Oh Marcie... Thank you so very much. You have blessed us, and Renn is smiling from ear to ear seeing his picture everywhere.

    Thank you for doing this. We feel your togetherness, and we embrace it. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    1. Of course. This is what community is all about! :)

  2. Marcie, thank you so much for sharing this in such a profoundly moving way. Our writing family is indeed surrounding our little Jedi and his family and holding them close with our love and support and thoughts and prayers.

  3. We're in this together! Great share, Marcie!

  4. My thoughts and prayers are with Renn, you, and your family as you wait for results and answers.

  5. This was a very sweet post Marcie. I'm sending good thoughts and prayers for Renn, Bethany.

  6. Beautiful way to reveal the Force Marcie!

  7. Thank you, Marcie...for giving all of us a heads-up about this...what a wonderful post...I will share it everywhere, Bethany...may the magic of healing thoughts and prayers and love surround you and Renn.:)

  8. A beautiful post, Marcie. Bethany & Renn, I hope you are feeling the force of this community's thoughts & prayers.